From the Director
I love good manners and children are never too young to start learning them. Below is a great article from Love and Logic that will help you raise a lady and a gentleman.
In all parts of their lives, children with great manners have a powerful advantage over those who do not. They make friends easier, get along better with their teachers, and eventually make much better employees and spouses. Here are four techniques that will give your child this life-long gift:
Tip No. 1: Make a list
Sit down with your kids and make a list of the specific behaviors polite people display. Have fun with this activity. Your written list might look something like:
· Say “please” and “thank you”
· Eat with their mouths closed
· Burp in the privacy of their own rooms
· Say “excuse me”
· Hold doors open for people
Tip No. 2: Model these manners
Children learn much more from our actions than from our words
Tip No. 3: Provide kids what they want only when they use manners
When parents use Love and Logic, they don’t waste their breath lecturing about good manners. Instead, they very politely refuse to provide what their kids want unless they hear a sweet “please” or “thank you” and see the other behaviors on their “manner list.”
For this to work, parents must respond to requests with polite sadness instead of anger or sarcasm. For example, a parent might say in a sad tone of voice, “This is such a bummer. We can’t go to the movies today because you need more practice with manners first.”
A parent who sets this limit, avoids anger or sarcasm, and holds firm by staying home will see a very upset child in the short-term and a much happier, more responsible one in the long-term.
Tip No. 4: Expect them to repay you for any embarrassment they cause
If your child continues to be rude, he or she may need to repay you for the embarrassment or inconvenience created. With genuine empathy and sadness, a parent might say, “How sad! Your rudeness at Aunt Mary’s house really drained the energy out of me. I’ve been too tired to clean the bathrooms. When you get them done, I’m sure I’ll feel a whole lot better.”
If the child refuses or forgets to do the chore, wise parents don’t lecture or threaten. Instead, they quietly allow their child to “pay” for their bad manners with one of their favorite toys.
Thousands of parents have transformed manner monsters into polite kids who are a pleasure to be around. At one Love and Logic seminar, a parent commented, “When I used these tips, my boys almost immediately started to shape up. They even warned one of their rather rude friends who was visiting: ‘Better stop burping…Our mom’s gonna make you do chores.”
Mark your calendar for June 4th – 7th and June 11th – 14th for Compass Christian Preschool Summer Camp. All children must currently attend CCP and be FULLY potty trained. Registration forms are available in the preschool office or on the website.
STOMP, STOMP, STOMP! Everybody’s doin’ the Dinosaur romp!! It’s Dinosaur time at Compass. This month we will go on a dino hunt, build a dino skeleton, eat like a dino vegetarian, and go digging like a paleontologist. There’s so much to explore with these amazing creatures. I can’t wait to roar into April with your little ones! Happy science!
We are continuing to emphasize rhythm in music and learning to play rhythm instruments. We are learning songs about all kinds of animals and “springtime”, as well as reviewing basic songs that we have
learned to praise out Lord.
In April we will focus on symmetry in the world around us. We are beginning to learn about balance and repetition. We will be learning about basic symmetrical objects and attempting to reproduce them through drawing and painting. Some of the forms that we investigate are the human body, the face, along with several inanimate objects. We will have a “still-life” project to learn how to create a pleasing arrangement in space, and to fill the background with balance and proportion. – Mrs. Gayle